Our parenting is a product of our upbringing. Like it or not. The gift of knowing this dynamic is that we can reflect and learn from it, as well as add new tools to our parenting tool belt.
I recently came across the following graph on parenting:
Diana Baumrind, a child development psychologist, came up with the graph.
What quadrant do you fall into? I float between a few of them and am obviously striving for the “Authoritative Style”.
Roy Inzunza 
I’m definitely in the authoritative role. Maybe too much.