Liberated from Fear

We are afraid of fear because we believe that it has the power to name who we are, and it fills us with shame. We feel ashamed that we’re going around as a fearful person, and so we pretend that we’re not afraid. We try our best to find our own way out of feeling afraid, but this is our dilemma, our stuck place, that Jesus wants us to be liberated from. But we cannot do it on our own.

– James Finley

Much like the 12 Step tradition, we must admit that we are powerless to overcome fear on our own.  We need a higher power that can restore and liberate us.

President FDR’s memorable inaugural speech contains one of the most famous lines regarding fear:

“So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is…fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance…”

– President FDR

Until now, I didn’t know it was followed by him saying words like nameless, unreasoning, or unjustified.

Fear has a way of trying to name who we are so we work hard at disapproving that we are NOT who fear says we are.  The voice of fear tries to name us:

  • not good enough
  • failure
  • fraud
  • powerless
  • no one likes you

For Christians, the cross is the mystery of salvation and suffering, death and resurrection, defeat and victory.  Jesus was tormented by the fear of suffering He was going to face (Luke 22:44).  But Jesus wasn’t afraid of fear because He knew it was just fear.  And I think it’s because Jesus was constantly hearing the voice of His Father saying, “You are my son, the one I love, pride of my life”  (Mark 1:11, my version).  Jesus was properly named from the beginning.  His identity as Messiah, Christ, King, Lord, or Master were superseded by his identity origin:  Beloved.

The message of Jesus is inviting us to experience liberation from fear and hear our original names.  Shame becomes disempowered as we are properly named.

God meets us in the fears that try to name us.  The Father doesn’t abandon Jesus in the Garden of suffering or on the cross.  God’s life is somehow interwoven in the scary things that life throws at us:  middle school, teenage years, dating, marriage, school, career, money, retirement, sickness, death.  Some of these rites are scary.  Scary things happen to us during these stages of life.

When scary and painful things are happening in people’s lives, I listen and say something like, “I’m so sorry to hear about this.  I can’t imagine what it’s been like for you.”  And then we wait to see how God is present and how we might be attentive to his caring and comforting presence.

“Well-formed love banishes fear.” (1 John 4:18, the message).  It’s the voice of love from God that is truly naming you and I.

I won’t pretend this is an easy liberation.  It has been a lifelong wrestling for me.  But I’m more comforted by the words of love these days than prior.  I am much more courageous now to say, “Oh, it’s just fear trying to name me” and then move forward, knowing that the God of love is present in the scary things of life.

Forever-type-love

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Be grateful because of His goodness towards all humankind

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Be grateful for the God of justice and compassion

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Be grateful for your socks, clothing, food, “1stworldissues”

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for your friends, family, and your children

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Remember when you were depressed, down on your luck, and had no one to turn to

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God was present in that moment with you

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When nothing made sense and you wondered if you’d make it through the darkness

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We’ve also had times of abundance and plenty

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More than we could ask or imagine

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Dream with compassion and kindness

His love is a fierce-forever-type-love

Find yourself

His love is a fierce-forever-type-love

Lose yourself

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Work hard today as if you were working for something bigger than yourself and your job

His love is a fierce-forever-type-love

Rest hard

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Go on a nature hike to listen to creation, His whisper, and your hearts longings

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Be quick to listen, slow to speak//or text, and slow to anger

His love is a fierce-forever-type-love

Ask for what you need/want from your loved ones

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Today, this very present moment, bask in that Love!

His love is a fierce-forever-type-love

(inspired by Psalm 136)

Being Signs of Love

Being Living Signs of Love

Jesus’ whole life was a witness to his Father’s love, and Jesus calls his followers to carry on that witness in his Name. We, as followers of Jesus, are sent into this world to be visible signs of God’s unconditional love. Thus we are not first of all judged by what we say but by what we live. When people say of us: “See how they love one another,” they catch a glimpse of the Kingdom of God that Jesus announced and are drawn to it as by a magnet.

In a world so torn apart by rivalry, anger, and hatred, we have the privileged vocation to be living signs of a love that can bridge all divisions and heal all wounds.